What To Be Aware If You Are Looking For Ukrainian Girlfriend
First of all it is needed to improve yourself. Fear has to be reasonable, but if you afraid of everything it means it is something wrong with you first of all. Although, if you have awareness, it is normal that you might want to evaluate the situation. If you are thinking about Ukrainian girlfriend you have a few ways to find her. The first might be finding Ukrainian girlfriend in your country and the second is finding her in Ukraine. It is more obvious that you afraid to have problems if you will go to Ukraine. But are your fears justified? In most cases – no. Ukraine is pretty secure and hospitable country, which could be proved by thousands of foreigners who visit the country every year. But in context with Ukrainian girlfriend, are there still some things you have to be aware?
Figuring out whether here intentions are sincere
Having pretty Ukrainian girlfriend is a dream of many foreign guys, but is it enough just to find girl from Ukraine and be happy? Sometimes yes, because along with pretty girls there is a need in Ukrainian women who also combine such qualities as intelligence and femininity. Often when thinking only about appearance foreign guys get into trouble. They find so called gold digger and she has literary nothing to offer except from pretty face and gorgeous figure. Blurred by beauty foreigner’s mind loses the ability to think objectively and since now the man is on her hook. She would demand expensive things to buy her as presents, she would insist on traveling to exotic countries and this all is at your expense, of course. It is true there are many rich guys on the West as well as in Ukraine who are ok with such flow of things, but if you are looking for relatively pure relationships with Ukrainian girl, described above type would be better to omit, because you will not find there anything except for attractive cover. Fortunately, the percentage of such women in Ukraine is not so great, but the problem is that this small amount of women “hunts” for rich guys and foreigners take top of the charts here.
Be aware of scammers
This could be very long and detailed topic, but most of foreigners are already pretty well acquainted with possible scammer’s schemes in Ukraine.
1. The most popular scam is when you pay for the services which are described, but in reality you get not what you expected for. For example, you are chatting with nice Liza from Ukraine and when you come to visit her it turns out you are going for the first meeting with completely different girl. In addition, this girl could barely speak some English, and Liza from the chat had pretty good English. How it happens? The truth is that Liza is a student of philological department of some Ukrainian university where she learns foreign languages and communication with you is not her pleasure, but her temporary job, and you naïve think that she can’t wait to see you online. Actually, maybe this is true, but only to earn some extra dollars from you. Sorry, nothing personal, as you probably have heard that dating business is very profitable.
2. The second popular scam is when you visit Ukraine and the girl you just have met asks you to go to the restaurant. After you have a meal you realize that prices in the restaurant are even higher than in the U.S.A. The next you are going to the shopping mall and she either gives you hints or directly asks you to buy her some clothes, smartphone, etc. Sometimes scammers are so inventive that they even ask you to buy the pills in the drugstore for sick mother. How the scheme works? In such places as restaurants they share money with barman, waiter or administrator. For example, you have spent $300, the girl has $100 from the restaurant. Clothes or gadgets she will bring back and get the money. I am not sure how it works with drugstores, because you can’t bring pills and ask for money back. Remember: descent girl would never ask you to go to the most expensive restaurant, the same as she would not asking you to buy something. This is moveton in Ukraine and even when you want to make some present yourself, descent average Ukrainian girl would be really shy to take it and you will hear hundreds of excuses where she tells she can’t take it.
3.The most simple scammer scheme is when you pay money for some service you can’t use, because there is no such service. For example, you spend money to see the profiles of women and there are nothing – no profiles, no women and no number or address to complain. Be careful when someone asks you to pay for some dating services on the Internet, check whether website is reliable.
Not fall in love who does not love you
It often happens that you could take usual girl’s sympathy for possibility of future serious relationships. Many girls like to flirt and smile, but it does not mean they would like dating you. Coming to Ukraine do not think that girls here are waiting for foreigners. Many girls here have own local boyfriends and if the girl is eagerly communicating with you this does not mean she would like or be your girlfriend. Youth in Ukraine is very curious and if there is a chance to practice English with native speaker many of them would go for it, including girls, most of whom are very pretty. But it does not mean they would like to date you. So, do not confuse friendly communication with hints for some serious future relationships, otherwise you may fall in love with the girl who is married, who has boyfriend or who simply does not see you as her boyfriend because you are not her type.